The picture shows an attentive listener. This is someone who is interested in what the other person has to say and gives them their full attention. A good listener does not interrupt, shows empathy, asks questions, gives feedback and refrains from making judgements. A good listener helps the other person to feel understood and valued. She lets the other person finish speaking. They actively listen by maintaining eye contact, nodding, agreeing or following up. They do not focus on themselves, but on the other person and their needs. A good listener is patient and gives the other person time to formulate their thoughts. They ask questions if something is unclear and summarise what they have understood. She shows empathy and compassion by putting herself in the other person's shoes and recognising their feelings. She gives thoughtful advice when it is requested or simply offers her support. She can also remain silent when the other person needs a break or wants to express their emotions. She also pays attention to non-verbal communication, such as facial expressions, gestures and the other person's tone of voice. She is reluctant to make harsh judgements unless they are constructive and respectful.
Good listening is an important skill that can be learnt and practised. It is not only beneficial for communication, but also for relationships with other people. Good listeners are often popular, trustworthy and successful.
What do you think? Are you a good listener? This colourful picture, inspired by the wild colour explosions of Fauvism, is a reminder to listen.
Conceived by Frank Daske | Foto & Design, visualized with AI.
Frank Daske is a photographer & designer and lives in Karlsruhe in the sunny south-west of Germany. But he takes every opportunity to travel. When he's not taking photos, he works on new, often AI-based images and designs for posters, clothing and other products. For more information,.. Read more…